Would you date a man short on class? I have, many times. Like an idiot. Never again.

My ex, who did this to me twice, saw two opportunities to leave me sitting at our dinner table at a public restaurant to go over and talk to two women he previously dated WITHOUT INTRODUCING ME or inviting me to join him.

He dumped me a month later.

gothicpear's man is a cad. Only she can choose what action to take. But having dated many cads like this guy who are low on class, and had this exact scenario happen to me, I'm afraid gothicpear has a decision to make.

A respectable boyfriend wouldn't have even left gothicpear's side at that music venue, even if he saw his FB-woman friend. He would have focused on being with gothicpear.