Thanks. I have not explained it properly in my post sorry

I understand totally what you mean about diagnosing and I definitely do not want to try to be better than her dr because its not possible as I don't have training. I fully understand

I guess what I'm saying is she has been diagnosed with 2 separate illnesses from 2 different drs. Who do you believe. Which one is right? (If either are)

The main thing is she's been diagnosed with bi polar many years ago. But everything I have read, does not even in the slightest way reflect her main issues.

She's been through a million different combinations of meds. For many years.

It's just hard to see her get treated for something over many years without much help

I agree she would probably sadly be dead if it wasn't for medication partly helping her depression

But problem is I really really believe she's being treated for something she doesn't have

So I agree with you but it's so hard to watch someone in pain being treated for something that does not fit much at all

We are just trying to see what illnesses they're are and then put that to her dr. Definitely are not "fully diagnosing her". Just want her dr to realize that maybe she doesn't have what they thought