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Originally Posted by StreetcarBlanche
So, another poster's thread inspired me to vent about my situation for any feedback (which is welcome).
If you are in financial straits, off-and-on, and take a vacation during that time, does that make you a liar about your situation?
Do I owe people an explanation for every decision I make with regards to how i spend the money I have access too?
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There is a difference between a good honest person like yourself simply not disclosing personal information as means of setting boundaries;
and a manipulative person like my relative deliberately lying and misrepresenting the facts in order to get something from someone else.
I do consider the whole picture before I conclude someone is lying.
But as far as the context of my thread, I'd like to look for early yellow flags being aware of my own gullible nature.
