Wow. How was your relationship with her otherwise? I don’t know the whole story, but I can honestly say I’m shocked she terminated over this. I’ve driven by my Ts house. He knew, because I texted him and told him, and he just laughed. I’ve also been IN *all* of my Ts houses at some point - first T because that’s where she saw me out of, second T because, well, we had a side relationship, and third (current) T - I went to his house when I was seeing first T because we wanted his opinion on something so we went to his place one morning at 9am (his place was beautiful - not at all what I would have expected for him!!).

Anyway - I would be most disappointed in HER. You can’t force a therapist to see you. If they want to terminate they have that right. BUT - she had an obligation to terminate ethically and appropriately, and it doesn’t sound like that happened. There should have been a referral to one or more other providers who would be a good fit for you. There should have been at least one, if not more, wrap up sessions. The exception would be if you threatened her or she felt endangered in any way. But it doesn’t sound like that’s the case.

I think you can say to yourself “ok lesson learned” and move on. Or dwell on that which you can’t change. She won’t take you back, so trust that it happened for a reason and try to embrace therapy with someone new. Maybe just don’t drive by their house.