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Originally Posted by Angie84
Thanks for your reply. My psychologist says exactly what you have said regarding Viktor. Logically I know it makes sense but every time she mentions it I get freaked out and feel worried and kind of scared. There's also a fear that he might leave me.
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This makes sense. I think sometimes there is a misconception that we have to "kill off" or banish parts of ourselves. Perhaps not. Perhaps we can seek to understand why they are there to begin with...the purpose they've served. And then see if there are other ways to find outlets for pain, that support the whole system a bit better. So that maybe Viktor can become an active part of your life without inflicting pain. Maybe it is possible that Viktor has lots of other contributions to make that have yet to be discovered, that are strengthening and bolstering, rather than destructive.
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