I've looked at multiple dating sites. Usually, there are mainly just straight options. And most (especially paid) make you choose whether you're "straight" or "gay". Outside of that, it seems mostly hook-ups or three ways. I don't necessarily have a problem with that, but with a lot of bad sexual experiences, I want to know/trust a person first. Besides, I have no idea what to say with a computer screen between me and another person.

Not to mention I am not comfortable having dating profiles that could be found or seen by people who know me. I know plenty of people who met people in real life. I have myself. I just want to know what I could be doing to meet someone in real life.

ETA: Fine, I rejoined a dating site since apparently, that's the only choice. *sigh* Too bad I have no idea how to approach people on there.