it is not all that important to me. it's a decent place to spend time on & play games . I read posts, comment when I feel the need but overall I don't feel that it is a life saver for me. I find folks judgmental if you don't meet the "standards" set here for the so called norm of "gushy rainbows, and hugs" responses. I feel that sometimes people ask for answers and guidance for topics that are self answering. and then a 3 page discussion follows on the topic. it just isn't what I need, others might, not me.