I like the suggestion of "can we just drop this topic and talk about other things". It wouldn't work with heavily critical, self-righteous people, but it's useful for redirecting a situation. It gives a clear indication without being controlling or aggressive. I could use this, thank you SilverTrees.
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*"Fierce <-> Reality"*
oh god I am struggling today, help me to remember how to stay connected and human!
remember: the nut shell against human predators and my own fear!
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