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Old Apr 28, 2019, 06:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Marylin View Post
The grass is always greener on the other side my friend,to me you are not a failure,what I wouldn't give for a salary of 47k,that is a lot of money to me,but you obviously aspire to the circles of the very affluent.Do not feel bad or sorry for yourself,it is never too late work towards your goals and stay firm and persevere you will attain them.My other piece of advice is never compare your life to anyone else's,you are special and unique.
Thank you for saying that. I am trying to work towards my goals but I'm always going to be severely behind, and the clock is ticking loudly if I ever want to have a kid.

I have heard the quotes about not comparing yourself and it makes sense...but it' s impossible when that's your world, when you're constantly around those other people. And parents that so badly wanted to see you succeed and get married and have kids.

I just feel so terrible that I didn't come through.