People on Quora don't have any special wisdom. Nobody does. Even if they were all therapists, so what? What would that prove?only that therapists side with their peers rather than with clients who are nothing to them. If I recall correctly, your therapist activated your obsession by showering you with love, attention and passing you "I love you" notes. And then when it got too much for her and she decided that you had "crossed a boundary" by merely driving on her street, she dropped you. Sounds like she's the one who should forgive herself, not you. I'm sorry for what you went through and for all the ****** responses on Quora but these people are no less biased than anybody else.