I completely understand what you mean, ZenZeta! I'm so sorry you're going through all of this! I COMPLETELY agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! You've been given lots of GREAT, KINDF, SUPPORTIVE, WISE AND WONDERFUL ADVICE AND SUGGESTIONS ON THIS THREAD! I'd suggest to tollow it as much as you can if you want to! I'd worry more about the fact that he doesn't talk that much. Communication is a VITAL part in EVERY relationship! If he's nto able to properly communicate with you some problems may arise in the future! I'd suggest to talk to him about ALL of this and see how it goes from there! Maybe that could help! Hopefully he'll listen to what you have to say and understand you! I feel like it's VERY IMPORTANT to talk about things like this to your boyfriend! It will be VERY important for your future! As for the rest I'm sure you'll BOTH be able to work it out if you just BOTH work together! Remember that we're here for you if you need it! Feel free to PM me anytime! Let us know if there's ANYTHING, ANYTHING AT ALL that we can do to BOTH HELP YOU OUT! Just LET US KNOW and MENTION IT and we'll try to do EVERYTHING WE CAN and we'll TRY TO DO OUR BEST to BOTH HELP YOU OUT! I PROMISE YOU THAT! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT! WISH YOU GOOD LUCK! Please keep us updated as much as you possibly CAN and let us know how it goes! We DO want to know how things are going for BOTH of you and when things will get better! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT! Sending many hugs to you, ZenZeta!