There was a time when I looked around at the seemingly happy, successful people and felt I wasn’t as good as them and would never have that. I was at an unsure point in my life and didn’t have clear goals or direction. Plus, they all seemed so extreme, but I think it was all a phoney illusion on their part...lots of phonies out there. When I got married, I stopped feeling like that. I now had my own life and didn’t look at others with envy...good, bad, or ugly...it was mine.