Update , girlfriend still away , looks like she is staying there for good , she got a new job weird enough she didnt mention to me till just today (she starts tommorow) now the question i got , does she want me to come move up with her , im going to school for 8 months i can prob go to school where she is at now but just curious on why she didnt tell me in the first place we talked before if she wants to move up there and get a job ill come with her but communication would of been good just feel like she doesnt actually love me ? i dont know im not well , kinda panicked on whats next , seen her last month for 2 weeks and no word of her getting a job , but i had a feeling she was hiding something , i dont know feel helpless bc she lives 5 hours away i see her next weekend she be home for the weekend .. just wish she had a job here not sure why she didnt ? i dont know dont make sense . any suggestions guys ? i feel depressed/anxious/pissed