The best dating advice I ever received was this: the signs you ignore in the beginning of the relationship WILL be the reason you leave the relationship later. You always KNOW right away who is good and who is bad for you. Don't ignore that.

And to answer your question: you're totally settling. for the wrong guy. reread your post. you wrote down 8 ways he's incompatible with you. your post reads as you are trying to justify why you stay with a man who makes you unhappy, who judges your choices as "wrong" b/c he doesn't agree with them, who forces you to set aside your beliefs and your values, b/c he thinks his are more important than yours.