She mentioned it when she first was up there to babysit her brother , and we both agreed we were not "broken up" and try the long distance relationship , and we both said we would move up if she wanted to get a job , shes very last second person , not sure why but shes been like that before she met me , i would come up with her and try getting a apartment together wihle she works and i go to school , ill have to have a big chat with her next weekend , to see why she didnt tell me and what the plans are for the future , we skype/talk every night but never mentioned it that she got the job just weird .. and i do because i want to give her the benefit of the doubt to see why she didnt tell me .. not sure if im just overthinking it all or just might be she is hiding something .