Well there was no proof she did , with snap chat its shady because everything deletes after 5 seconds , and sorry for being all over the place , im not good at typing my mind goes all over . lol but ya i dont know what to say , ill give her the benefit of the doubt and see what happens when i speak to her next weekend , we did talk about moving in a apartment together recently but no commitments because we didnt know what the future held , im ok with moving up to go to school there while she working , it can work out but why not say that in the first place perhaps she was afraid i would react solely on my emotions and over think it ? i dont know i guess ill find out her side next weekend , not something i can talk about on the phone rather be in person . but im just angry/depressed on why .. anyways thanks for the response ! i Thanks ! i will take all opinions on what the next step is .