Hi there. I'm so sorry for your pain. Given your story, it seems that logistically things cannot work out between you two, am I correct? It also seems that he probably does just want to stay in touch as friends. I wouldn't read into his FB likes and his texts or messages to mean that he is rethinking the breakup. He also put himself on a dating site before you did. It seems he wants to move on with his life but keep you as a friend. Usually men are very straight forward when they want to be with someone.... I think you can take what he has told you at face value. Are you able and willing to be friends or would it be too painful for you? I find that I need lots of space and no contact after a breakup in order to truly heal and move forward. Again, I am sorry you're going through this. Breakups suck, especially when there's still love there. (((((((hugs))))))