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Originally Posted by golden_eve
You’ve dated more than one alcoholic right? And your father was/is one? Now you need to explore why you keep getting attracted to the same type of dysfunctional man, and work on changing your pattern. You want true love and a healthy relationship, right? So work towards learning more about what a healthy relationship looks like, what a dysfunctional and unhealthy relationship looks like, and on how to weed through prospects by process of elimination and identifying the red flags early on.
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My dad was an alcoholic but none of my other exes were..we might have a drink or two during week but it wasn’t extreme. It wasn’t drinking until you get drunk..it was more like 1-2 drinks while watching tv/eating. My ex it was drinking, watching music videos until you pass our drunk. His mentality was more like 21 not 45! Such a turnoff for me..for that, I would have stayed with my ex!