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Do you NOT like farm life? Would you ever consider retiring (early) & even want to move to his farm? Is/was he really waiting for something that will NEVER happen?
Sometimes we need to be honest with ourselves & it clears everything up.
We have to want the whole package not just pieces of it or we need to understand the incompatibility that exists makes the whole thing impossible. When we pick things we want then are we really just using the person to get what we want? Lots goes into a REAL relationship.....lives have to come together not just at some nebulous time in the future. Timing is everything. Better to let go & find what actually works in your life.
I think your ex fiance is just looking for something that really works in his life now. He may be hoping you change your mind like you are hoping he changes his. That IS NOT being compatible.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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