I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Rozy1958! :sadug: I understand what you mean! I completely agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! I'd suggest to just move on as much as you can! He's the one who broke up with you after all and since he's already on a dating site it seems like he wants to move on as well! Break ups are hard to deal with so we can DEFINITELY understand your pain! You WILL get over it with time and patience! Just focus on yourself at the moment! Try to find AS MANY DISTRACTIONS AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN! Hopefully that will help a little bit! As far as staying friends with him that's YOUR decision and you have to consider whether or not that will be ok with you or if it will make you feel hurt even more! Please DO consider it! You're not doing anything WRONG if you DO decide to cut off contacts with him! It just means that you're taking care of yourself! It's just self-preservation after all! I also completely agree with Iloivar about just talking to him about all of this and see how it goes from there! Maybe that could help! Hopefully he'll listen to what you have to say and understand you! Just make and take the BEST decision for yourself, ok? That's ALL we're asking you! Remember that we're here for you if you need it! Feel free to PM me anytime! Let us know if there's ANYTHING, ANYTHING AT ALL that WE can do to BOTH HELP YOU OUT! Just LET US KNOW and MENTION IT and we'll DO EVERYTHING WE CAN and we'll TRY TO DO YOUR BEST to BOTH HELP YOU OUT! I PROMISE YOU THAT! PLEASE ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT!!!!! WISH YOU GOOD LUCK!!!!! Please keep us updated as much as you possibly CAN and let us know how it goes and what you decide! We DO care about you and we DO want to know how things are going for you and for him and what you decide to do! YOU ARE LOVED! I PROMISE YOU THAT! PLEASE ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT!!!!! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, Rozy1958!!!!!