Posting definitely can be a challenge......but I have found over the years, that the support is huge & I have always been blessed with the wonderful people here being a huge support in the many different situations I have been in.

Sometimes it's information, empathy, sympathy, support in my thinking & also, suggestions of looking at something a bit differently than I am & bringing me back to the reality of the situation.

I try to avoid the posts that get into a debate situation mostly because I have this horrible ability to see so many side of something that it's hard to see any of the posts being wrong....& I also hate getting into word fights as I was dealing with that in my real world & had enough of it.

I hope that you will be able to find the comfortable place for yourself here, so that the fear will be able to be put into perspective & you will be able to feel safer with your posts. I enjoy meeting others & finding out what's going on in their lives & what other are dealing with. I try to be supportive when I possibly can & try to give encouragement most of all in my replies.....I have found most replys to my posts have been the same, so I hope you will come to find this more here in the long run.

Debbie