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Gymgirl: I have concerns about your well being as as it pertains to this past relationship and your connection to it. You described how abusive he was and an alcoholic among many things. You seem to acknowledge the gaslighting, the manipulation and emotional abuse. You seem to realize how bad he was for you. Yet you still had some contact with him(or still do?) he occupies your thoughts and you are letting him control your moods. It was a short relationship and I am not saying it wasnt meaningful to you but in the grand scheme of things it wasn't something that had years of emeshment to unravel. What do you think you need to do to not think about, talk about or wish to contact this man? You seem like a smart girl so you know its not good for you.
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