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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
Notice your always psycho when you say what you want?
In general I don't like going to movies with anyone else period. I enjoy movies much more by myself when I can have my own reactions and really get into the movie. I have never understood movies as a date for friend experience. We can't even talk to each other? Crazy.
But you dodged a bullet.
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THANK YOU EMILY.
I am like you. I rarely go to movies with other people, b/c of this exact situation; I am shamed for being myself! I mean, WTH!
Yes, isn't it amazing how I was clear with what my standards are with this guy, and he responds by shaming me, calling me a 'psycho.' You know, even 5 years ago, I didn't have the self esteem level high enough to state my standards out loud. I was too 'people pleasing.' But now that I'm nearly 50, I'm like, "this is what I expect or want, and if you can't give that to me, 'buh-bye!" And somehow, that garners negative reactions from men that I meet. So, clearly those are the WRONG men for me!