I have been having extreme difficulty in a long-term mentally/emotionally abusive relationship. I feel like he doesn't respect me because I am always trying to keep the peace by "giving in" to his requests and going along with his askew perception of things. I am sick and tired of this. In another life, I was a very talented, pretty, successful lady. Now I never feel like I am good enough, pretty enough, etc. I am sure that he talks to other women and we have not had intimate relations in 2 months....Not sure if he is just withholding this and affection because he is punishing me or he is getting his pleasure in other ways (other women). I know that he is a porn addict. He denies this but I have caught him. What do I do?