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Old Apr 29, 2019, 06:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
One of the signs of a potentially abusive person is pressure to move faster that you feel comfortable moving.

You can maintain your boundaries and still be friends.
I agree with this. Abusive people put pressure on us.. it’s all about them and their needs.

I too have had a tendency to “believe” people who it later turned out played people like a violin

But you can still be friends and maintain your boundaries.
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