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Apr 30, 2019, 03:40 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,083
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 Roxy
He actually sounds like he has placed some very UNREALISTIC expectations on you.....especially at this point in your lives where you already have existing family that makes up a huge part of your life (as it should be since they have been a part of you long before he existed in your life.....they should have your priority).
I would not be happy with his expectations given your analysis of what really happened either. Maybe this will actually accept that this relationship wasn't really as good as you thought it was before giving it some critical thinking. When someone demands more time from us than we are capable of giving because of our own life's requirements....that becomes a red flag against them.....not us especially at this point in our lives.
I have lost all my family except my daughter who lives across the country. I treasure (even the bad) times I dedicated to my parents in spite of what it cost me dealing with a trauma because of it.
I know you will sort this out because you use logical thinking. It is good to write out what you have written because it helps clarify the FACTS in your own mind while doing it & it ALWAYS helps to vent
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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