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Old Apr 30, 2019, 04:15 AM
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There are ton of nice men out there. It doesn’t mean one should date or marry them all. It’s a ridiculous notion. I’d say if you aren’t in love dating him and sleeping with him is probably not the best idea, in my books it’s not. Do you love him? On the other hand if a person tends to date and fall in love with abusers and bad boys, but when a nice guy comes along he seems boring then perhaps it’s something to look into.

But generally speaking if you have to convince yourself that you should date him because you finally met a nice guy, I’d say it’s a wrong reason to date anyone. Plus not fair to the guy. I’d bail. And quick.
Thanks for this!
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