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Old Apr 30, 2019, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted by ennie View Post
I recently became friends with one of my colleagues and I am taking it slow...perhaps too slow. She approached me, rather than me approaching her.

I wonder if she thinks I'm cold and distant, but it's nothing personal against her.

I agreed with my counselor last session that I need to take time to get to know people.

The thing that made me uncomfortable last time I had lunch with my new friend was that she started to confide in me about her problems and the situation she described is strikingly similar to the fraudulent sob story of my female relative.

But I have a gut feeling my new friend is telling the truth.

But I still want to take it slow because of my past experience/ foolishness of falling for someone else's fake sob story.

What are some signs that someone's story is legitimate? Can you give examples?
I think the first sign there’s a problem is when you don’t know someone very well and they are telling you their sob story. I started to become friends with someone like this a few years ago and then I had to get away from them. There is always a drama and she always wanted something from me but she didn’t reciprocate. I don’t have many friends but I am learning to keep a polite distance and avoid drama so the people in my life aren’t taking advantage of me.
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