i agree.. if the therapist could just "be a regular" person in a regular relationship... well, then you'd have to have it be equal on both sides, and we'd all have to deal with their"stuff"

a good t knows how to mix in enough real... and it doesn't mean every feeling is due to transference... i know there are plenty of things i genuinely like about my T, and things i dont...

something brought this on sweet pea?