I completely understand what you mean, ennie! I'm so sorry you're going through all of this! I completely agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! Unfortunately there's no way to know for sure at least in the beginning! I'd suggest to just give her some time and try to see if you can spot any contradictions between the stories she's telling you and perhaps ask her about it if they're minor enough! Most importantly be VERY careful if they're asking you ANY favors such as money or anything similar, ok? I'm sure you know that already! Just be careful and be patient! It can take time but you WILL figure it out sooner or later! I'm SURE of that! I PROMISE YOU THAT! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! Sending MANY SAFE, WARM HUGS TO YOU, ENNIE!