Hi Fuzzy
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
I still have work to do to lower my opinion of certain malignant Narcissists who treated me like rubbish without cause
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The cause is narcisizm. THey maybe even do not know they treated you bad or if they know, they feel that "you deserved it", because you did not fit into "their reality".
I feel with you, but the only way is to NOT ASK WHY! Focus on your future, let the past sleep a bit and recover. I'm not telling you to forget about your past, but focus on YOUR FUTURE.
The more you feel bad and mad - believe me I do as well, many times, I tell you from my experience - the worse it gets. Narcists create narcists out of happy children and they try to do so with everyone they meet, just by them being that way.
The more you feel like a victim, the more that condition affects you are well.
The only way is to let the past sleep for some time until you will have the inner freedom and power to deal with this without feeling bad or mad.
Until then, focus on your future!
Best wishes
David