does it really matter what excuse he gave? I mean really...what could he possibly say that would justify it? she's ugly, got a poor personality, cheap, snores? what? aand that makes it ok? not once but twice

it's his wife. the one who HE is supposed to be faithful to...doesn't matter he is cheating, and by participating in that well (2x no less) doesn't bode well your her own personal standards. she blew up at him..really kind of calling the pot black. in my opinion neither one is of stellar groundwork. I think neither one gets a free ride in thgis case.