I don't have a lot of advice to give to you either, StreetcarBlanche, since I've never experienced this myself! Just wanted to let you know that I understand how you feel and that I'm SO sorry that you going through all of this! I hope you and your mom will be able to deal with this one way or another! Unfortunately the people who are the closest to us are also the ones that can hurt us the most! Hang in there! Please let us know how it goes and what you decide to do and please keep us updated as much as you can if you want to! We DO want to know how things are going for you and your mother and how things are turning up for you and your mother! I think it's VERY admirable that you're taking care of her! You're a STRONG, WONDERFUL PERSON! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! Sending many hugs to you, StreetcarBlanche!