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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I think it also sort of feels like T is pushing his own agenda on me. Like, "This is the only path forward, forgiveness." (That's probably more clear in his email response, which I'll include at least in part--it's all very long.) Even in his setting goals for me--it's not like we set those goals together. In some ways,it feels like he's repeating patterns of my mom, thinking I should be a certain person and trying to mold me into that person, where my own path and end goal may need to be different.
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He's being a T. Yes, the only way forward is forgiveness, that's not really an agenda as much as a fact, You will always have pain and feel stuck until you can do that.
I also don't think he's any different than any other T, of course they all want us to succeed so they have a vision for us, and it doesn't matter what his vision or your moms or anyone's might but except, WHAT IS YOUR VISION FOR YOU? That's the thing that matters here.
You are free to ignore any of his suggestions or ideas and do what is best for you.