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Originally Posted by DP_2017
Alright and if you want to harbor anger in your life, that's on you. I hope it works for you.
I know LT a bit off this forum and I know that's not the kind of person she wants to be. So if you TRULY want to heal, then yes, moving forward/letting go is the only way... but you can just to go forward and hold on to anger, it will just always have those negative feelings in you. Your choice, that's not the issue here, I was merely saying her T has a good point and it isn't about her negatively, it's his way of showing care, to say he wants to see her heal those wounds and let go of that anger and move forward. I totally get that and I agree with him
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Choosing not to forgive does not always equate to harboring anger in one’s life.. i don’t know LT off of this board but I do believe hon when she wants to heal and is kind.. that however, does NOT have to include forgiveness if she doesn’t think it is necessary. To expect people who have been harmed by another person to always forgive the perpetrator is hurtful for the person being harmed.
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