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Originally Posted by DP_2017
That's because you see it differently. It doesn't mean giving them a pass or anything. It's letting go of things in your heart and moving on so YOU can live a happy and good life. Of course a person can always be a ****** human, I'd still forgive them because I don't want to take negative feelings with me.
Forgiveness is about me, or about you, not the person who caused the issues.
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But- they way that people look at forgiveness is different. For you that is what it means. Just because I choose not to forgive somebody does not mean that I can’t let go off stuff or means it equates to negativeness in life. My point is that it seems forgiveness is subjective, and you are seeing everybody who is unforgiving in one way and that is simply just not true. It may be true for you, but it doesn’t mean it is true for anybody else.
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