Well hopefully after talking it all out today, LT was able to get decide for herself how she feels about it all now. Often times miscommunication happens in emails, I know, it happened loads with me. In person is often a better way to discuss it.

I personally liked and agreed with his email. He had a lot of valid points, it's all how you look at it. I don't see any "sides" in it.... just care for her. Wanting to lay out his hopes for her in the best way he knows how.