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Originally Posted by healed84
But- they way that people look at forgiveness is different. For you that is what it means. Just because I choose not to forgive somebody does not mean that I can’t let go off stuff or means it equates to negativeness in life. My point is that it seems forgiveness is subjective, and you are seeing everybody who is unforgiving in one way and that is simply just not true. It may be true for you, but it doesn’t mean it is true for anybody else.
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Ya but if you can let go of stuff, as you put it, then you are basically forgiving, at least in my view of things. It's just a way to free yourself from the pain. Kinda like how you talk things out in therapy and work through them. I think we are all thinking forgiveness very differently at this point, anyway her T is allowed to have his view and she can say no thanks, it's not for me.