I am unafected by it.
music is music. what the singers have done is wrong, of course it is, but the fact is their is music, an it is good.
a couple of years ago someone wanted me to get rid of a cd that someone got me as a leaving gift at school, because the singer in question had done things that people didn't agree with (not MJ), but I refuse.
never the less, it was taken from me anyway and I spent a good while trying to find his music again, as I have fond memories of his songs when I was young
I don't get angry with people who don't want to play mj's music (or anyone else for that matter in that category), that's their decision and I respect it