I like what you are saying there wise WMD. You are right. I have journeyed with those I love through illness and cure and illness to death. Support and attitude is what it is all about. The compassion and wisdom to stay with the loved one and not run away because. it is scary honors them. We can honor eachother by being there no matter what is happening, to put the sick persons needs above our fears. I appreciate your words. Thank you.