I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, DazedandConfused254! I COMPLETELY understand your frustration! You're definitely not alone in ANY of this and I'm sure many people can relate to what you wrote especially here on PC! I agree with what all the toher wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! You've been give LOTS of great, kind, wise and wonderful advice and suggestions on this thread! I'd suggest to follow it AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN IF YOU WANT TO! I believe people can STILL be kind and respectful and set up clear boundaries with others! You can do BOTH things! I feel like that's a REALLY important thing to remember! Please DO remember that you have EVERY RIGHT to stand up for yourself if you feel like you're being unfairly treated! You can still be kind, but still FIRM in your decisions and statements! There's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with that! I think its WONDERFUL that you're STILL trying to do your best to be KIND and GENEROUS to EVERYONE! Please TREASURE IT because your hard work WILL pay off sooner or later! I PROMISE YOU THAT!!!!! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE!!!!! We certainly appreciate your kindness here! Just remember to be KIND to yourself, ok? That's the most important thing that you can do to help yourself! You deserve to treat yourself with the same kindness that you're treating other people with! I PROMISE YOU THAT!!!!! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE!!!!! Sending many hugs to you, DazedandConfused254!!!!!