Well, the thing is, I’m not going along with it. I just refuse to be upset by it anymore. He has “a fit” and I tell him I’m sick of it, I won’t take any emotional abuse from him, he’s not making sense, and I won’t talk to him until he can be rational. I remind him not to act out in front of our kids or I will take them and leave. What else can I do? It’s so so frustrating. And I don’t deny drinking is a problem, I only disagree that it is THE problem.