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Originally Posted by Nowinners
Maybe give her a very abbreviated answer (one word?). And don't voluntarily disclose? Try not to worry about what she is going to ask, just deal with it when it comes up. I must admit that when I don't want to answer questions I say, "I don't know," even when I do!
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When I answer vaguely, she asks further on the specifics.
This so reminds me of my Cluster-B relative. She used ask the specifics and tried to tag along. She also asked for first and last names of people I am friends with (I thought it was weird but I didn't want to be rude so I answered) and then when she gets to the hang-out, she would friend-poach.
I am doing better at
managing Cluster-B people, but I can't believe I am still
attracting them. I mean, how did I attract someone that resembles my relative in the first place?