So abusers and perpetrators are not allowed to seek help? They should be ostrasized here the same as in society. Even if they want to change, they arent welcome here because of who they are? Good to know.

I have bpd/aspd. Two of the most stigmatized disorders in the mental health community. You should hear the things people say about me based on my diagnoses alone.

Once again I am feeling unwelcome. I am a victim of childhood abuse and trauma. I have a severely fractured personality because of it. I constantly read online that I am a ****** person, even though I have tried meds and therapy and do everything in my power to cope with the hand I was dealt. A hand that I never asked for.

What I have heard here is that this is a "victims only" site and once you display negative behaviors, it doesnt matter that you are a victim too.

I am beyond disappointed in this site, community and response. No one wants a pedophile in their backyard (for example), no one wants to help them, no one wants to hear their story. Nobody is trying to help the "abusers" because apparently abusers cant be victims.

So on behalf of every person here who has ever been the abuser, thank you for denying us any support or an opportunity to change/learn/grow. Thank you for labelling us and reminding us that no matter how badly we may be hurting, we dont matter and we dont belong.