((Fuzzy)), when you are posting it's important to remember that when other people respond to you and they upset you, often that means that individual doesn't know how to respond to you in a supportive way and instead they may only know how to criticize and choose to pick things others say apart. So, with that know it's not always you that did something wrong. Bottom line is people can be mean Fuzzy. I know for myself I had to learn that when I get triggered I have to step back. I have to say it took me a while to be able to do that. However, I have so much "toxic" going on IRL that I am struggling and not always in a mindset where I am my normal patient self.