[I should add that I reached out to someone and was able to talk about it. It helped some.]

I'm so glad you found someone to listen, Só. I've been a member of the forum for about 6 months now, have read many of your posts, and have always had the impression that your burdens were pretty heavy. Many hugs to you (((( ))))

And by the way, it was solely to be able to respond accurately to your posts that I learned how to make an accent agué. How about that?