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Default May 02, 2019 at 06:31 PM
 
I know you are sad and it’s normal but I encourage you to look at the positives here! You didn’t become dependent on a man the way many women are, didn’t expect him to pay your bills, didn’t marry him to cure loneliness, you didn’t move in, you didn’t stay for years.

You dated him for few months, he was no good so you left fast. It’s all very positive and puts you in a position of power. Strong and independent. Sure you had some doubts but you did it.

Times when women stayed in bad or not so good relationships are over long time.. Many women leave relationships and marriages if their needs are not met. You did it and I applaud you.

Women don’t NEED a man. It’s great to have one if he is wonderful. But “want” isn’t “need”

There are ton of great things you can do in life that don’t include men. Oh and from my understanding you are a single mother. So you are already stronger than many. Hugs

So please look at the positives here!
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