UGH, have to get my head and heart to agree or align together. This is so bizarre, after going a few days with no contact from the "ex", bc I didn't post anything on FB, literally as soon as I did on Tuesday, he is "liking" it. (Prior to this recent "liking frenzy" of my stuff, it had been a year since he had last "liked" anything I posted, just really not a big thing to him). I was ready to just "unfriend" him (I can't stay "friends", too painful) and let him know I would be out later this week to remove my trailer from his place and try to move forward with my life, but I had not actually taken any action. Then yesterday, I notice he is looking at my profile on the dating app, (and this is not the first time) and he is trying to either disguise his profile, or hide it so I didn't know. Then today, I saw that he had been "viewing" it again. Since I have nothing to hide, be ashamed of or upset about (we WERE engaged and I have told him, I love him and would marry him ONCE we have the legal issues resolved), I opened his profile and made a nice non-threatening complimentary comment on one of his pictures. (It was actually how cute his grandaughter was that he was holding). My head is telling me, he broke things off, time to move on. My compassionate, hopeful heart is saying, be patient, give him time to come to terms with the issues I have raised. Not that I promise to take any advice offered, but any thoughts / comments?