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From my personal experience when I left my H 12 years ago. I told him that if he chose to make the changes necessary for the marriage to work.....I would know. I moved 2100 miles away & he just coukdn't grasp how it would be possible for me to know. The big issue with him was his inability to communicate.....so obviously if he started communicating....it would be obvious that a change was made. He never did & I never regretted my leaving.
Basically what I am saying is to go about your own life without him. If he comes around with his thinking about the legal issues & realizes he doesn't want to lose you....he will let you know. Yep it leaves us open for that rejected feeling of "he didn't care enough to do what was needed to have a relationship".......but I came to realize how much better off I was without the stresses of trying to make it work on his terms.
It just takes time to put it ALL into perspective
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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