With former T, I was very attached, am very attached. When I felt connected to my T, I would tell her things like, I feel very connected to you right now, or this is a good session because the connection is really there today. I told her I loved her, in emails not in person except on our last session which happened to be a phone call. I guess I was pretty upfront about feeling connected. With current T, I really haven't had that connected feel yet, so I haven't verbalized it at all. HUGS Kit